I think all of us need to remember that none of us are all that. We’re all sinners that run on mercy. The strongest medicine to fight off a prideful and judgmental spirit is to remember God’s grace. None of us are perfect, and we’re all trying to figure things out. We all need mercy for what we have done and grace to move forward in loving each other. I don't know what your life is like. I don't know if it's a place you want to escape from or escape into. All I know is that God has placed you and He has a purpose for you.